No two brides are ever alike. Much less FOUR? Our little group for instance, has four ex-brides who can't be any different. Our friends Nina Tanchanco-Cuenca and Anna Montenegro-Antonino were obviously the sophisticated, elegant, chic brides. Mica and I on the other hand, are just plain TOPAK. Haha! But no matter how extreme our weddings all were, we DID manage to agree on one thing--and that was to have rebellious wedding music.
Gone are the days of super duper formal, traditional wedding music.
Your "wedding soundtrack" is a great way to personalize and pump up your big day. If you are even afraid to incorporate anything rebellious in your wedding, this would be the best way to channel it.
Create a theme around your music
Nina Tanchanco-Cuenca, wed in January of 2010
had a "Chocolates & Strawberries" wedding theme at Tagaytay Highlands Midlands.
had a "Chocolates & Strawberries" wedding theme at Tagaytay Highlands Midlands.
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Photo by Pat Dy |
Inspiration from Animation
Anna, wed in May of 2010
had a "Peach & Birdcage" wedding theme.
For their couple's entrance, she chose "Married Life" from the Pixar animation movie, "UP!". Apart from the fact that the song was perfectly titled "Married Life", Anna also opted for the song because she liked the kind of marriage Mr. Fredrickson and his wife Ely had. "And to have the UP Jazz Ensemble, with its 21-piece orchestra play it for me live was really cool for me", Anna adds.
DIY Music
Kai Palileo-Cruz, wed in February of 2011
had a "Bora Hop/White-with-Pops-of-Color" wedding theme in Boracay.
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Photo by Mango Red |
A Tribute to The First Date
Mica Tuano-Fuentes, wed in September of 2011
had a "Love Play/Little Rascals/Ballerina Chic/Purple/DIY" wedding theme
at the Ronac Art Center.
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Photo by Mango Red |
For her bridal entrance, she had Beng Calma-Alcazaren of Drip render her own version of "Universe" by Rico Blanco. "Marc used to sing this to me a lot because he says 'he's the lucky one' when he met me. So I decided to get a girl for my version of the song, because he can thank his stars all he wants but I'll always be the lucky one :)", Mica muses.
Here are more songs which I'd also like to personally recommend:
1. Cull your inspiration from Romantic Comedy movies like Jerry Maguire's "Secret Garden" by Bruce Springsteen. Evey time I hear this song, it just really makes me feel giddy, with butterflies in my stomach, and with the occasional "awww"
2. Take a cue from Anna and challenge a string quartet to learn a new song. A song that really makes me feel all the wedding-excitement-rush pour in is Vitamin String Quartet's version of U2's "All I Want is You"
3. Another awesome idea is to get a girl to sing a Coldplay or a Keane song. It becomes so much more soulful and emotional that way. An example of this is Tanya Chua's version of Coldplay's Yellow. "Look at the stars, look how they shine for you" -- imagine walking down the aisle with those lines? :)
Need further convincing? Featured Rebellious Bride Nadine and her groom entered their reception to Metallica's Enter the Sandman. Rebellious Groom Duane on the other hand, INSISTED on playing Darthvader's Death March song.
Four girls, four different wedding tastes--all are united rebelliously when it comes to changing the rules of wedding music :)
What songs would you include in your own wedding soundtrack?
XOXO,
Kai